Let’s face it, being a leader puts you in a precarious position. Some people are going to like you, some will hate you, and others will pretend to like you but secretly hate you. There just is no other alternative.
Being in a position where you have to evaluate people and reprimand them, they won’t always agree with what you have to do or say. Sometimes their reaction can be downright hateful.
But that’s just part of the territory. Being a leader isn’t all fun and games and telling people what to do. You’re not going to be everyone’s friend. And if you are, you won’t last long.
Ultimately tough decisions are going to come. And you have to be as personally detached when making them as possible. You certainly can’t mix your personal feelings with business decisions.
I run into situations all of the time where I am forced to reprimand or fire someone who may not even really deserve it, or maybe they ran into a little bad luck. While I have personal feelings about the situation, I keep that completely separate when making the final decision.
Unfortunately some of those who work under me don’t always follow this philosophy. I am certain that there are those who feel like I’m a heartless shell of a man, who only cares about the bottom dollar.
But the bright side to all of this is that those who do their jobs, and do them well, respect you more when you make the tough decisions. After all, not everyone wants to be in a position where they have to face a lot of pressure and confrontation.
But in the end you have to be consistent in order to maintain that respect. And the fact of the matter is that everyone handles being reprimanded different from others. Some take it in stride and make a vow to improve, others threaten you or slam the door and throw some expletives your way.
Bottom line is, not matter how they react, just keep plugging along. In the end your workforce will be better for it.